How To Help A Child To Improve His/her Creative Ability 


Kids are natural innovators with powerful imaginations. And creativity offers a bounty of intellectual, emotional and even health benefits.One study found that kids’ imaginations helped them cope better with pain. Creativity also helps kids be more confident, develop social skills, and learn better.

Below, three experts share how parents can encourage their kids’ creativity.

1. Designate a space for creating. Carving out a space where your child can be creative is important, said Pam Allyn, executive director of Lit World and Lit Life and the author of many books, including Your Child’s Writing Life: How to Inspire Confidence, Creativity, and Skill at Every Age.

But this doesn’t mean having a fancy playroom. It could be a tiny corner with a sack of LEGOs or a box of your old clothes for playing dress-up, she said. Allyn has seen creativity flourish in the most cramped spaces, including the slums of Kenya. The key is for your child to feel like they have power over their space, she said.

2. Keep it simple. Just like you don’t need to create an elaborate play area, you don’t need the latest and greatest toys either. Child educational psychologist Charlotte Reznick, Ph.D, suggested keeping simple games and activities. For instance, she plays LEGOs with her child clients. But instead of following instructions, the kids let the wheels of their imagination spin and build what they want.

3. Allow for “free time.” It’s also important to give your child unstructured time, Allyn said. Spend a few hours at home without activities scheduled, so your child can just putter around and play, she said.

4. Help your kids activate their senses. Expose your kids to the world so they can use all of their senses. Again, this doesn’t mean costly or complicated trips. Take them to the library, museum and outdoors, she said. Ask them to imagine what travelling to faraway places, such as the African safari, might be like, Reznick said. What animals would they encounter? What would the safari look like? What would it smell like? What noises would the animals make?

5. Discuss creativity. Ask your kids when they come up with their best ideas or have their most creative moments, If it’s in the car while getting to soccer practice, honor that by keeping a notebook, iPad or even a tape recorder handy.

6. Cultivate creative critical thinking. As your kids get older, ask them how they approach certain problems and how they might do things differently. Have your kids brainstorm their ideas on paper or use mind-mapping, she said.

7. Avoid managing. “Children have an amazing innate ability to be creative when they play freely on their own, and unfortunately, the act of overparenting dampens or even wipes out that innate ability,” So it’s important to figure out how to facilitate your child’s creativity without managing it, he said.

Lanza and his wife don’t hover over their three boys as they play, and they also don’t enrol them in many activities. Recently, Lanza’s oldest son invented an intricate game of marbles with its own complex rules. (As Lanza said, he doesn’t really understand it.) He’s even adjusted the rules so that his younger brother can win once in a while and the game continues.

Kids learn a lot by playing on their own. Lanza cited Jean Piaget’s The Moral Judgment of the Child, where he discusses “how children develop moral sensibilities and reasoning through playing marbles on their own.”

He also mentioned Alison Gopnik’s The Philosophical Baby, which describes how babies’ brains work. Gopnik asserts that babies are born experimental scientists that take in scrolls of information by trying things on their own and tweaking as they go. Being more hands-off helps kids figure out how to problem-solve and create in their own unique ways.

8. Help kids pursue their passions. Pay attention to your child’s interests and make these materials and activities available to them. Lanza’s oldest son is especially interested in geology, so Lanza buys him books on the topic along with rock samples.

9. Take the time for your own creativity. Since kids learn from watching their parents, be creative, too, Reznick said. Join your child when they’re drawing or building or coloring.

One little girl wanted her parents to help her build an art jungle in the living room, she said. At first mom was hesitant. But this provided a great opportunity for the family to bond, and everyone had a fun time.

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Yoruba Bridal Engagement List of Items


Suggested Bridal Engagement Gifts for those having their engagement outside of Yorubaland who are Christians or Muslim. This list does NOT contain alcoholic beverages as this is against the beliefs. Dollar amount was put on the fee amount, you can convert that to whatever currency you use. You can increase or decrease the amount, that will be between the groom and the bride.


 The Dowry is the monetary gift paid by the groom to have his bride. It is usually a token to show appreciation for having her hand in marriage.

Other gift items are the following:

  • Suitcase of assorted traditional outfits
    • 2 headties
    • 2 sets of complete lace
    • 1 set of complete aso-oke
    • 2 pairs of shoe and bag
    • 1 set of gold necklace
    • 1 gold wrist watch
  • Bible/Quran – depending on the religion
  • 1 Big Jar of Vegetable/Olive Oil
  • 1 Large Bag of Salt
  • 12 Tubers of Yam
  • 12 Whole Stock Fish
  • 2 Baskets of Assorted Fresh Fruits (edible arrangements is good)
  • 1 Large Bottle of Honey
  • 4 cases of 6/pack of Apple Cider
  • 2 cases of 24/pack of Malt
  • 8 packs of 24/pack of Assorted Soda/Pop drinks
  • 4 packs of Assorted Cookies
  • 8 packs of 10/pack of Capri Sun
  • 4 packs of 24/pack bottled water

The Fees in my opinion should be optional. In most cases when the ceremony is done abroad, these fees are not practiced. When they are paid, the money normally should go to the bride. It’s all the formalities of the tradition.

  • Knocking of the Door Fee $25
  • Opening of Gift Fee $25
  • Reading of the Letters $25
  • Bride’s Sitting Fee  $50
  • Unveiling-the-bride Fee $50
  • Mother’s Acceptance Fee $100
  • Father’s Acceptance Fee $100
  • Cell-Phone Communication Fee $50
  • Household Male Children $50
  • Household Female Children $50
  • Elders’ Sitting Fee $100

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Fine Baby Sinach Mp3 By Frank Edwards



Award winning worship Leader Sinach’s wedding is just few weeks away, and the Rocktown Family headed by Frank Edwards decides to do a wedding song in anticipation for the deal day. The song which features addition vocals by Gil, will definitely make you dance. Download and share… Happy Married Life Sinach.





We find ourselves in a nation where we can’t have what we are entitled to.
I went to the PHCN / NEPA office to buy a recharge for my new Infrared Prepaid meter and I was given code and was not told that there was an additional code or format to use.

When i went back to their office another set of codes where given to me which was still not a complete format.
I could not recharge my prepaid meter for more than a week – but fortunately, a neighbour help out and i decide to make this public and help fellow Nigerians to be free from bondage of the useless PHCN officials who look for every available means to chest citizens of their money. 


It is popular in Japan today to drink water immediately after waking up every morning. Furthermore, scientific tests have proven its value. We publish below a description of use of water for our readers. For old and serious diseases as well as modern illnesses the water treatment had been found successful by a Japanese medical society as a 100% cure for the following diseases:

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